How & Where to Meet Women?

altWe are putting forth a list of tips attuned towards helping you meet women.

This information excludes the mundane methods of using Facebook or wandering around in random chatrooms. This article is engineered towards doing something more pragmatic and hopefully, effective.

Attend Unisex Dance Classes

Dancing in various formats is being explored across the nation. Finding a dancing school that fits your budget and creative interests is rather easy. Further, you can choose dancing schools in an area where you fancy, your kind of women are more likely to show-up. This is also the easiest way to develop a comfortable body language with women. A dancing class would invariably involve you and the ladies learning various moves together. The atmosphere is rather congenial, the spirits are up and the mood relaxed, with music in the background. This is one place where you can bank upon interacting with women without trying too hard. You don’t need to worry too much about your attire or the usual mannerisms you follow when moving in an upscale café or a disco. Here, all you need to do is try to enjoy yourself. People can sense such positive vibes easily and you will find women getting comfy with you in no time.

Helping a lady with a difficult move or seeking a lady’s help to get your move right is the perfect pretext to get things started.

Find a Happening Gymnasium

This approach has two advantages. Firstly, you get to meet women of different types, giving you a bigger range to choose from and secondly, you get to make yourself more marketable in the dating niche. Being fitter never hurt anybody. Even if you have been into fitness throughout your life and really don’t need a dedicated gym schedule, you could combine three days of gymming with three days of dancing classes in a week. Let one day be dedicated for resting.

In a gym, fitness fundas & topics about the latest nutrition/health fads give you easy topics to get the conversation started. Helping a girl struggling with her squats or grunting heavily as you lift a massively-loaded barbell is the perfect way to get acquainted with the fairer sex or engage its attention, respectively.

Shop for Home Accessories

Most guys don’t realize that shopping for home accessories probably engages the widest age-group and number among female shoppers—of course, besides the shopping fervor associated with buying typically, feminine stuff. Home accessories are increasingly turning into a male bastion of retail. With guys migrating to different cities, they often need to give their livable space a makeover. In places where decorative arts and crafts or handy, domestic electronic appliances are sold, you are sure to find women.

Looking a bit confused, you can always seek a lady’s advice regarding what kind of wall hanging or side-table accessory would look the best. This is the perfect way to initiate a conversation since you are seeking her “EXPERTISE”.

Attend More Contemporary Events

Try to get a more active on the social front and this doesn’t refer to hitting the pubs or bars. Search for places like popular cafes and galleries that often host impromptu gigs. Such joints are frequented by women looking forward to meeting people who can think beyond the usual forms of entertainment like movies. Get listed with book-clubs/bookstores where reading sessions are held and forums where progressive plays or convocations are hosted. However, if you are the shallow type and cannot think beyond the superficial, this won’t do you much good.

Attending musical events that draw crowds in hoards are the perfect platform to get hooked-up with women. You hardly need a conversation-starter here since the theme itself is all about shedding the inhibitions!

Don’t Forget the Humble, Neighborhood Park

Fitness isn't limited to fancy dance studios or steroid-pumping guys muscling it in shady, basement gyms. The open greens, in the form of parks, are still the most preferred form of endorsing a fitness schedule. Walking, jogging or running remains the most favored fitness activity among women. However, you need to get the timing right. Too early at the park and you are bound to find yourself sandwiched among groups of middle-aged and retired men and women who have this strange, groupy tendency. Too late and you risk losing out on not finding women who are working or studying and need to get their day started according to a schedule. Do your homework and scout the park. Try to find-out the period when the concentration of girls is remarkably higher.

Making eye contact with that cute lass on the jogging circuit or enticing a lady, using your equally-indulgent dog, are some of the tried-&-tested ways of meeting women.

Keeping Yourself Prepared to Meet Women

You need to follow some basic rules when it comes to being prepared for meeting women. You don’t need to flaunt the biggest brands or have the perfect hairstyle. Just ensure that you stick to the essentials like:

• Wearing clothes that compliment your physique. At all times, ensure comfort in whatever you choose.

• Don’t overdress as it makes you look like a desperate wannabe. Visiting a shopping mall wearing the biggest shades and hair gelled to the max just doesn’t make sense.

• Take a bath before you step out and use a good, body deodorant.

• Keeping your breath flavored with a mouthwash is a good idea.

• Keep your facial hair tidy. Shave or trim to ensure you look neat.

Most importantly, don’t forget to carry your confidence. This is the real difference-maker between just meeting women and being able to actually impress and approach a lady. (Dating,

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