The following information is catered towards helping guys in flirting effortlessly, i.e. in the online mode.
Online flirting presents some remarkable similarities to real life flirting and some unique challenges.
Keep Things Simple when Flirting Online
The first rule of flirting online is to keep things simple. Try to be honest in your responses. Even if you are writing a flirtatious email to a girl, don’t go overboard with the compliments. This can ruin the entire impact. Just like real-life flirting, online flirting has to look effortless and be subtle in approach. The very strong, hands-on methods are most likely to fail.
Sustain the Humor in Online Flirting
Some guys are left wondering what it takes to flirt successfully online. Well, the most critical ingredient is humor. Flirting actually comes second to it. Yes, this might sound surprising but just consider this—your online profile can provide a few pics of you at the most. Beyond this, there are few other things in your profile, except for perhaps owning a Hummer, which can instantly attract somebody. Thus, humor is the first thing that will engage her attention, make an impression and eventually carve the path to effortless flirting. For starters, try to use general humor. This includes the usual, SMS jokes and one-liners. When you find the lady easing into the conversation, you can start with the naughty humor. This is when the more explicit, sexually-fueled jokes come to the fore. If she seems to take this rather well, you are on your way to flirting effortlessly.
Be Courteous when Flirting on the Web
Offline or online, women like to be treated well. Even if a profile presents her as someone younger or available, you need to address her with some degree of respect. Use adjectives that suggest being respectful initially rather than trying to get too casual or pally. Get the grammar correct, use the words that don’t suggest profanities or insult to women in general. Don’t get opinionated about her choice of lifestyle too quickly. Let her ease into the situation.
Don’t Be Always Available & Unravel Slowly
Limit your online availability. You shouldn’t come across as someone who is always logged in, trying to flirt with women. Your availability and your online status is something she should look forward to and not get accustomed with. The same applies to opening the doors to your private life. Be guarded in revealing and confide things slowly. This allows the mystique about your persona to build-up. Don’t ask too many questions about her life too unless she wants to confess in you.
Invite Her to Play Games
There is an overload of free online games to choose from. Pick any game that involves a bit of guessing. This includes games that allow building words, sentences or images. The idea is to start with something basic where you draw figures or characters and words that are popular. Slowly, you can mold this into a bit of harmless flirting where you start creating phrases or drawing images that are more suggestive. If she is a willing participant, you have just begun flirting online, successfully.
Try Online Shopping with Her
It is easy to find online shopping sites. Just try to get hold of one where you plan to buy something. Share the link with her and seek her feedback. Women are absolute flattened when their expertise in shopping is sought, particularly by men. You can also share your free, online shopping coupons with her.
Build a Worth Online Profile
The worth of a good and dependable online profile in the niche of online flirting is best explained by Facebook. Many guys often wonder why their Facebook flirting efforts go waste. The reason lies in their Facebook profiles that are either too fake or just incomplete. While a few minutes of harmless flirting doesn’t require much of an online profile but if you want to turn the flirting towards getting an actual date, then your Facebook profile will make a major difference. Not just Facebook but any kind of online profile that is without real images or details about your education and profession are intercepted as fake. To make your online profile attractive and worthy of being flirtatious, attach as many images as you can that depict your fun side. Simple pics such as those with you in glares, posing along with your car, pet dog or your vacation pics just help to raise the aura of authenticity.
Taking Online Flirting to the Next Level
If you think that she has responded to your initial efforts at flirting, try to take the game to the next level. This includes sending her online freebies including gifts, kisses, etc. If she seems to be really taking the cues, there is just no stopping. You can even send across links of erotica and ask her to tell you what she liked best about it. The approach should be slow where you gradually raise the tempo. For instance, if the discussion goes towards women in movies, Google images of gorgeously-dressed Bollywood or Hollywood babes. Then, proceed towards telling her how fantastic she would look in some of the dresses. You can even send across Google links of costumes or dresses you think are slightly sexy and would like nice on her. In this way you are complimenting, impressing and flirting with her.
Concluding Thoughts—Ditch the Stupidity
Some guys seem to have been sucked into the persuasion of marketing gimmicks that offer Cyber Seduction Games and other hopelessly useless stuff in the name training you to flirt online! Don’t waste your money on such things. Just remember to be yourself and take things slow. Flirting online isn't very difficult if you stick to the basics explained above. (Dating, MensXP.com)
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