(ANI): Do you fake an orgasm when you actually didn't get satisfied? Or find faults with the your husband's way of handling the kids, or pester him to find a new job? If yes, you may be making irreparable damages to your relationship.
Following is a list of nine statements compiled by Judy Ford, psychotherapist and author of Every Day Love that you should never utter to your significant other, reports the Mother Nature Network.
First comes: "Yes, I had an orgasm." (Even when you didn't. If you keep lying, he'll never know how to please you they way you want to be pleased.)
Another statement that is a strict no-no is "You're just like your father." It's nasty and belittling, says Ford.
The third forbidden statement is actually very common: "When are you going to find a new job?" If your husband is happy and productive in the job he currently has, then let him be. If you want more money for the family, there are other great options to get it. You don't want your husband to be miserable in the workplace. Chances are, he'll take his misery home and infect the rest of the family with it.
The fourth hurtful statement is: "My mother warned me you'd do this!" By saying this, you're only betraying the fact that you've held on to some negative notions that aren't even your own. If you're going to call him out for doing something you don't like, then say it. You don't need to bring your mother into the tense situation
The fifth line, which is never a good idea to say, is "Just leave it - I'll do it myself!" Just because he's doing something differently than you would doesn't mean that he's doing it wrong.
The sixth statement, which can be heart breaking, is "You always... [fill in the blank]" or "You never... [fill in the blank]"
Then eighth harsh statement is "Ugh, we're hanging out with him again?" This is an insult to your man's choice of friends.
The last but not the least is "Please watch the kids. But don't do this, take them here or forget that..." Let Dad be dad. (ANI)
