7 Signs that She is Definitely Cheating on You
Has your girlfriend been making elaborate excuses for not meeting you or spending time with you? Has she been ignoring your calls and messages? Does your girlfriend has a 'new' guy friend, whom she is reluctant to introduce you? Well, these might be some signs of infidelity, which you should not ignore. For all you guys out there, here are some signs which reveal that your girlfriend is cheating on you. So, save yourself from the horrors of an impending heartbreak!
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She has a mysterious new friend
Has she started ignoring your calls and making excuses whenever you want to meet her? Is there a new mysterious friend listed on her Facebook, with whom she shares many mutual interests? Has she made flying mentions of an ‘interesting person’ she recently met or has befriended? Is she hesitant to take ‘certain’ calls in your presence? Well, if there is a ‘yes’ to all these questions then we would say you have to watch your back, because she might walk away from you any moment.
She is not your sex goddess anymore
Is your girl finding reasons to dampen your mood for lovemaking? The reasons may range from mood swings to menstruation or a bad day at work. While these are common excuses and could be accounted for a low sex drive, but wear your guard. If she is giving you a cold shoulder each time you want to shower some love on her, well then there might be a u-turn ahead in your relationship!
Her smart phone is her new best friend
Try noticing changes in your girl’s phone etiquettes, such as it is on silent mode whenever she is with you, she is always text chatting with a certain ‘someone’, or she attends most of her calls in a very hushed tone. She may be cooking-up an extravagant line-up of excuses for not being able to call or text you. Well, we suggest that you should not jump to any conclusions at the first instance. But, do try to rationalise these signs, as they might be your warning signals for the impending heartbreak.
Changing her look
Have you chanced upon her new lacy lingerie in the laundry bag that she has never worn for you? Has she spent a fortune on a makeover and complete wardrobe change? While these could be a part of an action plan to boost self-esteem, but it could be an ulterior motive to impress someone new in her life. Do you remember the start of your relationship, when you both made a lot of changes to impress each other? Well, warning signs now suggest that she is doing the same to impress ‘someone’ new!
She has 'last-minute' plans
Her last-minute plans can include an off-site work trip or some colleague's cocktail party. While she may play it down by showing reluctance on leaving you or giving vague explanations to mislead you, but beware! If she is making excuses to stay away from you, she might actually be trying to get away from you and this relationship.
She moves from 'we' to 'me'
Has your girl suddenly been dropping by a lot of ‘I’ and ‘me’ in her conversations? Well, it may be a sign of the impending explosion of the 'break-up bomb'! Your relationship has always been about ‘us’ and ‘we’. But, now she has just stopped consulting you on her plans or decisions. Well, if so, then be ready to realise that your relationship status is soon going to change, for bad.
She is picking fights for no reason
Is your girl just making excuses to pick fights with you? If everything about you, which she liked earlier just irritates her now, then she may just be fishing for reasons to dump you! By finding faults in you, she might be looking for reasons to deflate her own guilt of cheating on you. Well, you never know when she might just call it quits, so better gear-up!
Keep your eyes and ears open!
Although these are some obvious signs of betrayal, but it is better to use your common sense and follow your instincts. Be careful, as sometimes an overriding obsession with your partner may lead to issues of distrust when there isn’t any. Jumping to impulsive conclusions may create a rift, even when there is none. If your instincts are backed by sufficient evidence, you should look for a quick fix– whether it is a confrontation or a calm ‘discussion’. Remember, 'break-up' is still impending, so decide on your course of actions accordingly.
